Are you a big boy with muscle? Perhaps we should start when I was 11 and I had just got my chubby little fingers on a local queer magazine and was flipping through, ravenous for any glimmer of the unknown gay world outside of my very conservative household in rural Arizona.
The first time he saw someone living a life that he hoped to live one day was in a church youth group he attended.
Behold: the fat gay men.
The chubby community is a subculture in the community.
I am a man of a certain size.
It is somewhat parallel to the fat admirer subculture which centers around Big Beautiful Women.