I was scared to be seen.
But now, in my 50s, I have a whole different perspective; namely, I don't feel like I need to act likable and sexy and desirable and free because I know that I already am all of those things.
I'm so much stronger now.
Now that I am in my 50s, I dare you not to look! Today at 50, sexy is about my nurturing my inner beauty in addition to cultivating the outer beauty.
I wore whatever was trendy, did what other girls my age did and really tried to be well liked.
It's looking in the mirror and liking what I see.